Cubalah kaedah ini untuk menguatkan
Zakar anda yang lemah. Hendaklah membaca doa ini sebanyak 7 kali kepada air
yang suam kemudian mandikanlah Zakar anda air tersebut. Atau celupkanlah tuala
kecil ke dalam air suam itu kemudian perahkan airnya dan bungkuslah Zakar anda
dengan tuala itu sehingga sejuk. Cubalah amalkan sehingga 7 hari berterusan,
Insya-Allah
Bismilah Hiroh Man Niroh Him
Yaa Qahar, Lailla Ha il lulloh,
Wahidul Qahar.
2)Doa Penguat Zakar.
Faedah Doa Yang Di baca waktu lemah
Zakar.
Jika di rasai lemah zakar ketika
jimak (bersetubuh), bacalah doa ini 3 kali kepada zakarnya di waktu hendak
jimak (bersetubuh) mudah mudahan kuatlah zakar ketika bersetubuh. Insya-Allah
Allah huma innaa Na ngu zubika tam
mah. Warruhi, wad dami, walhmi, wasahmi, wal hurubi waljulubi watakzi. Faiza
kozoita amron fain namaa yakulu lahu kun fayakun. ( 3 Kali)
3)Doa Penguat Zakar
Atas Permintaan Ramai di sini saya
perturunkan amalan doa penguat Zakar (3) yang di amal-amalkan oleh orang-orang
lama sejak dahulukala.
AAmalkanlah doa ini dengan
membacanya sebanyak 7 kali ketika hendak bersetubuh. Isya-Allah ia dapat
mengeraskan Zakar anda dan dapat bertahan lama semasa menjalankan tugas anda
itu. Inilah doa yang masyhur di kalangan tuk-tuk guru zaman dahulu yang masih
di amalkan oleh sesetengah orang yang berpoligami pada zaman sekarang.
Alhamdu lillahil lazi kholako minal
maa i basharo.
4)Doa Penguat Zakar
Sebelum tidur ambil sedikit minyak
urut dan gosokkan dengan laju pada tapak tangan untuk memanaskan tapak tangan
anda.. Jangan gunakan minyak yang panas di takuti akan mencederakan zakar Anda.
Letakkan sedikit minyak tersebut pada jari-jemari tangan dan urut di kelengkang
ia itu di antara dubur ke telur zakar.. Tekan sedikit dan pastikan anda urut
sehala saja, yakni dari dubur mengarah ke telur zakar. Baca doa ini sebanyak 7
kali .
Ya Qadim
Ya Daim
Ya Ahad
Ya Wahid
Ya Samad
Ya Allah – Ya Allah – Ya Allah
Ya Qahar – Ya Qahar – Ya Qahar
Lailaha il’aLlah hu Wahidul Qahar
Amalan ini amat berkesan dan
kekadang dapat dilihat pada malam itu juga, di mana zakar akan menegang dengan
hebat sekitar 2 atau 3 pagi sehingga waktu solat subuh. Amalkan ia kalau boleh
pada setiap malam sebelum anda tidur terutama ketika dalam keadaan cuaca sejuk
supaya ligament dan urat syaraf yang berada pada zakar dalam keadaan tahap
kecergasan yang terbaik.
You can have
a healthy, rewarding sex life at any age. These tips will help you
increase intimacy and enjoyment as you get older.
Good sex at any age
Sex
can be a powerful emotional experience and a great tool for protecting
or improving health, and it’s certainly not only for the young. The need
for intimacy is ageless. And studies now confirm that no matter what
your gender, you can enjoy sex for as long as you wish. Naturally, sex
at 70 or 80 may not be like it is at 20 or 30—but in some ways it can be
better.
As an older adult, you may feel wiser than you were in
your earlier years, and know what works best for you when it comes to
your sex life. Older people often have a great deal more self-confidence
and self-awareness, and feel released from the unrealistic ideals of
youth and prejudices of others. And with children grown and work less
demanding, couples are better able to relax and enjoy one another
without the old distractions.
For a number of reasons, though,
many adults worry about sex in their later years, and end up turning
away from sexual encounters. Some older adults feel embarrassed, either
by their aging bodies or by their “performance,” while others are
affected by illness or loss of a partner. Without accurate information
and an open mind, a temporary situation can turn into a permanent one.
You can avoid letting this happen by being proactive. Whether you’re
seeking to restart or improve your sex life, it’s important to be ready
to try new things, and to ask for professional help if necessary. There
is much you can do to compensate for the normal changes that come with
aging. With proper information and support, your later years can be an
exciting time to explore both the emotional and sensual aspects of your
sexuality.
Benefits of sex as you age
As
an older adult, the two things that may have brought the greatest
joy—children and career—may no longer be as prevalent in your everyday
life. Personal relationships often take on a greater significance, and
sex can be an important way of connecting. Sex has the power to:
Improve mental and physical health. Sex can burn fat, cause the brain to release endorphins, and drastically reduce anxiety.
Increase lifespan. Through its health-improving benefits, a good sex life can add years to your life.
Solidify relationships. Sex is a chance to express the closeness of your deepest relationship.
Give refuge. Sex gives you a chance to escape from the sometimes harsh realities of the world.
Accept and celebrate who you are
Sex
in later life may not be the same as it was in your youth—but that
doesn’t have to be a bad thing. In fact, sex can be more enjoyable than
ever. As you find yourself embracing your older identity, you can:
Reap the benefits of experience.
The independence and self-confidence that comes with age can be very
attractive to your spouse or potential partners. No matter your gender,
you may feel better about your body at 62 or 72 than you did at 22. And
it is likely that you now know more about yourself and what makes you
excited and happy. Your experience and self-possession can make your sex
life exciting for you and your partner.
Look ahead.
As you age, try to let go of expectations for your sex life. Do your
best to avoid dwelling on how things are different. If you enjoyed an
active sex life in your younger years, there’s no reason to slow down
with age, unless you want to. A positive attitude and open mind can go a
long way toward improving your sex life as you age.
Love and appreciate your older self.
Naturally, your body is going through changes as you age. You look and
feel differently than you did when you were younger. But if you can
accept these changes as natural and hold your head up high, you’ll not
only feel better, you’ll also be more attractive to others. Confidence
and honesty garner the respect of others—and can be sexy and appealing.
Good sex as you age is safe sex as you age
As
an older adult, you need to be just as careful as younger people when
having sex with a new partner. You may not be able to get pregnant, but
you’re still susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases. Talk to your
partner, and protect yourself.
Communicate with your partner
As
bodies and feelings change as you grow older, it’s more important than
ever to communicate your thoughts, fears, and desires with your partner.
Encourage your partner to communicate fully with you, too. Speaking
openly about sex may not come easily to you, but improving your
communication will help both of you feel closer, and can make sex more
pleasurable.
Broaching the subject of sex can be difficult for
some people, but it should get easier once you begin. And as an added
bonus, you may find that just talking about sex can make you feel sexy. Try the following strategies as you begin the conversation.
Be playful. Being playful can make communication about sex a lot easier. Use humor, gentle teasing, and even tickling to lighten the mood.
Be honest.
Honesty fosters trust and relaxes both partners—and can be very
attractive. Let your partner know how you are feeling and what you hope
for in a sex life.
Discuss new ideas. If you want
to try something new, discuss it with your partner, and be open to his
or her ideas, too. The senior years—with more time and fewer
distractions—can be a time of creativity and passion.
Modernize.
You may belong to a generation in which sex was a taboo subject. But
talking openly about your needs, desires, and concerns with your partner
can make you closer—and help you both enjoy sex and intimacy.
Focus on intimacy and physical touch
A
good sex life—at any age—involves a lot more than just sex. It’s also
about intimacy and touch, things anyone can benefit from. Even if you
have health problems or physical disabilities, you can engage in
intimate acts and benefit from closeness with another person. Take the
pressure off by putting aside your old ideas of what sex “should be.”
Focus instead on the importance of tenderness and contact.
Taking your time
Without
pressing workloads or young children to worry about, many older adults
have far more time to devote to pleasure and intimacy. Use your time to
become more intimate.
Stretch your experience.
Start with a romantic dinner—or breakfast—before lovemaking. Share
romantic or erotic literature and poetry. Having an experience together,
sexual or not, is a powerful way of connecting intimately.
Don’t be shy.
Hold hands and touch your partner often, and encourage them to touch
you. Tell your partner what you love about them, and share your ideas
about new sexual experiences you might have together.
Relax.
Find something that relaxes both partners, perhaps trying massage or
baths together. Relaxation fosters confidence and comfort, and can help
both erectile and dryness problems.
Expanding your definition of sex
Sexuality
necessarily takes on a broader definition as we age. Try to open up to
the idea that sex can mean many things, and that closeness with a
partner can be expressed in many ways.
It’s not just about intercourse.
Sex can also be about emotional pleasure, sensory pleasure, and
relationship pleasure. Intercourse is only one way to have fulfilling
sex. Touching, kissing, and other intimate sexual contact can be just as
rewarding for both you and your partner.
Natural changes.
As you age, it’s normal for you and your partner to have different
sexual abilities and needs. Find new ways to enjoy sexual contact and
intimacy. You may have intercourse less often than you used to, but the
closeness and love you feel will remain.
Find what works for you
You
might not be as comfortable with some sexual positions as you once
were, but that doesn’t mean you need to give up an activity that is
pleasurable for you—and miss out on feeling close to your partner. Keep
in mind that it’s not all about intercourse or recreating the way things
were when you were younger. The key to a great sex life is finding out
what works for you now. Sex as you age may call for some creativity. Use
the following ideas as inspiration, but don’t be afraid to come up with
your own.
Experiment. Try sexual positions that
you both find comfortable and pleasurable, taking changes into account.
For men, if erectile dysfunction is an issue, try sex with the woman on
top, as hardness is less important. For women, using lubrication can
help.
Expand what sex means. Holding each other,
gentle touching, kissing, and sensual massage are all ways to share
passionate feelings. Try oral sex or masturbation as fulfilling
substitutes to intercourse.
Change your routine.
Simple, creative changes can improve your sex life. Change the time of
day when you have sex to a time when you have more energy. For example,
try being intimate in the morning rather than at the end of a long day.
Foreplay.
Because it might take longer for you or your partner to become aroused,
take more time to set the stage for romance, such as a romantic dinner
or an evening of dancing. Or try connecting first by extensive touching
or kissing.
Playfulness. Being playful with your
partner is important for a good sex life at any age, but can be
especially helpful as you age. Tease or tickle your partner—whatever it
takes to have fun. With the issues you may be facing physically or
emotionally, play may be the ticket to help you both relax.
Restarting a stalled sex drive
Some
older adults give up having a sex life due to emotional or medical
challenges. But the vast majority of these issues do not have to be
permanent. You can restart a stalled sex drive—and get your sex life
back in motion. Remember that maintaining a sex life into your senior
years is a matter of good health. Try thinking of sex as something that
can keep you in shape, both physically and mentally.
The path to
satisfying sex as you age is not always smooth. Understanding the
problems can be an effective first step to finding solutions.
Emotional obstacles.
Stress, anxiety, and depression can affect your interest in sex and
your ability to become aroused. Psychological changes may even interfere
with your ability to connect emotionally with your partner.
Body image.
As you notice more wrinkles or gray hair, or become aware of love
handles or cellulite, you may feel less attractive to your partner.
These feelings can make sex less appealing, and can cause you to become
less interested in sex.
Low self-esteem. Changes
at work, retirement, or other major life changes may leave you feeling
temporarily uncertain about your sense of purpose. This can undermine
your self-esteem and make you feel less attractive to others.
Worry over “performance.”
Worrying about how you will perform, or whether you are worthy of
sexual attention from your partner, can lead to impotence in men and
lack of arousal or orgasm in women. This may be a problem you have never
before had to face. Sex drives can be naturally stalled as you face the
realities of aging, but it is possible to overcome these bumps in the
road.
Communicate. Talk to your partner, or to a
friend or counselor, about your issues, whether they’re physical or
emotional. Explain the anxieties you are feeling, ask for and accept
reassurance, and continue the conversation as things come up.
Just “do it.”
Sex is just as healthy and necessary as exercise and, just like
exercise, it may surprise you with pleasure and satisfaction—even if you
weren’t “in the mood.” So get back into practice. Once you’re back in
the habit, you’ll start to feel better and your sex drive should
naturally increase.
Increase your activity level. Bumping up your general level of activity will benefit your sex drive by increasing your energy and sense of well-being.
Let it go.
As much as you can, use your age and experience to be wise and candid
with yourself. Let go of your feelings of inadequacy and let yourself
enjoy sex as you age.
Know when to seek help
No matter
what your age, losing your desire for intimacy and touch altogether
isn’t normal. In fact, loss of interest or function may be signs of a
medical problem—one that may be best addressed by a doctor. If something
is getting in the way of your desire or ability to have a good sex
life, don’t let embarrassment keep you from asking your doctor for help.
Working with a professional, there is much you can do to improve your
sex life.
Keep in mind that anything that affects your general
health and well-being can also affect your sexual function. Sexual
health can be affected by:
Medical conditions. Illnesses that involve the cardiovascular system, high blood pressure,
diabetes, hormonal problems, depression, or anxiety can affect sex
drive and function. You can talk to your doctor about strategies to
combat these issues.
Medications. Certain
medications can inhibit your sexual response, including your desire for
sex, your ability to become aroused and your orgasmic function. You can
talk to your doctor about switching to a different medication with fewer
sexual side effects.
Sex after a heart attack
Many
older adults with heart disease—or who’ve suffered a past heart
attack—are less sexually active than they used to be or even stop having
sex completely, often fearing that sex may trigger another heart
attack. However, for most people it is still possible to enjoy an active
sex life with heart disease.
According to a recent study, for
every 10,000 people who have sex once a week, only two or three will
experience another heart attack, and their risk of dying during sex is
extremely low.
Check with your doctor before resuming sexual activity.
Participate in a cardiac rehabilitation program to improve your fitness.
If you can exercise hard enough to work up a light sweat without triggering symptoms, you should be safe to have sex.
Wait
to have sex if you have advanced heart failure, severe valve disease,
uncontrolled arrhythmia, unstable angina, unstable or severe heart
disease.
Once your condition is under control, ask your doctor when it’s safe to resume sexual activity.
AMARAN : UNTUK YANG TELAH BERISTERI & AKIBAT TANGGUNG SENDIRI
Untuk mengelakan kesalah bacaan dan bunyi yang betul. Sila rujuk pada kitab-kitab suci Al-Quran, kerana tulisan rumi kekadang mempunyai kata bunyi yang berbeza.
1) Agar Tua Kembali Muda.
Jika anda terasa lemah sendi tulang dan lesu urat geramat kerana sudah lanjut usia (sudah tua), anda tidak seharusnya berserah begitu sahaja. Tenaga anda masih dapat dipulihkan sekiranya anda amalkan doa di bawah ini setiap hari selepas sembayang Asar atau Isya’ sebanyak 7 kali. Insya-Allah
akan pulihlah tenaga batin anda seperti tenaga anak muda layaknya.
Inilah doa yang perlu diamalkan.
Bismillah
Hiroh Man Niroh Him
Yaa wahidul baqil qawiyul mathin. In nalloha qawiyun, ngazizun, yaa qawiyu
biroh matika yaa ar hamar roohimin.
2. Terapi Seksual Gangguan Sihir (1).
Atas permintaan dari Pelanggan-pelanggan dan teman-teman saya yang begitu mengharapkan mendapat Rawatan penyembuhan terkena Sihir Gangguan Seksual. Di sini di perturunkan cara-cara merawatNya. Jika ada keyakinan Insya-Allah amalan ini berjaya menghapuskan sihir-sihir tersebut. Semuga bagi pembaca-pembaca blog juga dapat menafaat bersama.
Bacakanlah ayat-ayat di bawah ini sebanyak 7 kali pada air, lalu airnya itu dibuat minum dan digunakan untuk membuat permandian (ia itu pada mereka yang terkena sihir itu) selama 7 hari berturut-turut. Insya-Allah sihirnya akan gugur. Sekiranya masih belum terhasil buatlah beberapa kali ulangan. Dan banyaklah berdoa kepada Allah.
Wa awhainaa illa musa an alqi ngasaaka faiza hiya talqofu mayakfikun. Fawaqo
ngal hakqu wabathola maa kaanu nyakmalun. Fa ghu libu hunaa lika wan qolabu sho giriin. Wa ulqiyas shaharotu saajidin. Qolu aaman na birobbil ngalamin. Robbi musaa wa haarun.
iii) Surat Thaha 69.
Innama sona ghu kaidu saa hirin walaa yuflihus syaahiru haisu ataa.
3. Terapi Seksual Gangguan Sihir (2).
Ambilah bekas berisi air, dan bacakan kepadanya surat Al-Ikhlas, Al-Falaq, An-Nas (Al-Mu’awwidzat) dan doa-doa di bawah ini.
Allah humma robbin Naasi az
hibisbaksa wasfi antas syafi laa syifaa a illa syifa uka syifaa an la yugoo diru syaqoman. (Maknanya; Ya Allah, Tuhan semua
manusia, hilangkanlah penyakitnya dan sembuhkanlah, kerana Engkau-lah Yang Maha Menyembuhkan. Tiada kesembuhan, selain kesembuhan (dari) Mu, kesembuhan yang tidak meninggalkan penyakit.)
Bismillahi arqika wal lohhu yasfika
min kulli da in yukzika wa min kulli nafsin aw nga in hasidin. Allahu yasfika. Dengan nama Allah, saya obati kamu
(dengan rukyah), semuga Allah akan menyembuhkan dari setiap penyakit yang menyakitimu, dan dari setiap jiwa atau mata yang dengki. Semuga Allah menyembuhkanmu.
A'uzu bikalimaatil lohit taam maa
ti min sarri ma holaq. Aku berlindung dengan ayat-ayat Allah
yang sempurna dari semua kejahatan yang diciptakan-Nya.
Bismillah hillazi laayazurru maas
mihi sai un fil arzi wala fis syama ii wa huwas sami ngul ngalim. Dengan nama Allah, yang dengannya
segala sesuatu yang ada di bumi dan di langit tidak akan membahayakan. Dialah Yang Maha Mendengar, Lagi Maha Mengetahui.
Doa-doa tersebut di baca 7 kali pada air, lalu airnya di minum dan dipakai untuk mandi selama 3 hari. Insya-Allah sihir itu akan gugur dan ikatan sihirnya akan lepas.
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Nasihat saya: Janganlah kita bersusah payah kesana kemari, berjumpa orang itu dan orang ini yang mengaku pandai hal-hal yang ghaib, dan boleh menyembuhkan sesuatu penyakit berkenaan sihir ini. Memang ada mereka yang pandai seperti Ustaz-ustaz atau orang -orang alim. Cuba yakin pada Allah dan lakukan sendiri dahulu. Insya-Allah kita juga boleh mendapat kesembuhan.
4. Doa Penguat Zakar (1)
Cubalah kaedah ini untuk menguatkan Zakar anda yang lemah. Hendaklah membaca
doa ini sebanyak 7 kali kepada air yang suam kemudian mandikanlah Zakar anda. Atau celupkanlah tuala kecil (good morning towel) ke dalam air suam itu kemudian perahkan airnya dan bungkuslah Zakar anda dengan tuala itu sehingga sejuk. Cubalah amalkan sehingga 7 hari berterusan, Insya-Allah
Bismilah
Hiroh Man Niroh Him
Yaa Qahar, Lailla Ha il lulloh, Wahidul Qahar.
5. Doa Penguat Zakar. (2)
Faedah Doa Yang Di baca waktu lemah Zakar. Jika di rasai lemah zakar bagi jimak (bersetubuh), bacalah doa ini 3 kali kepada zakarnya di waktu hendak jimak (bersetubuh) itu niscaya jadi kuat
bersetubuh. Insya-Allah
Atas Permintaan Ramai dari Pelanggan-pelanggan, teman-teman dan pembaca blog
yang terus ke email saya. Di sini saya perturunkan amalan doa penguat Zakar (3) yang di amal-amalkan oleh tetua orang-orang lama.
Anda amalkan doa ini dengan membacanya sebanyak 7 kali ketika hendak bersetubuh. Isya-Allah ia dapat mengeraskan Zakar anda dan dapat bertahan lama semasa menjalankan tugas anda itu. Inilah doa yang masyhur di kalangan tuk-tuk guru zaman dahulu yang masih di amalkan oleh sesetengah orang yang berpoligami pada zaman sekarang.
Bismilah Hiroh Man Niroh Him
Alhamdu lillahil lazi kholako minal maa i basharo.
7. Doa Penguat Zakar (4)
Sebelum tidur ambil sedikit minyak urut dan gosokkan dengan laju pada tapak tangan untuk memanaskan tapak tangan anda.. Jangan gunakan minyak yang panas di takuti akan mencederakan zakar Anda. Letakkan sedikit minyak tersebut pada jari-jemari tangan dan urut di kelengkang ia itu di antara dubur ke telur zakar.. Tekan sedikit dan pastikan anda urut sehala saja, yakni dari dubur mengarah ke telur zakar. Baca doa ini sebanyak 7 kali .
Ya Qadim Ya Daim Ya Ahad Ya Wahid Ya Samad Ya Allah – Ya Allah – Ya Allah Ya Qahar – Ya Qahar – Ya Qahar Lailaha il’aLlah hu Wahidul Qahar
Amalan ini amat berkesan dan kekadang dapat dilihat pada malam itu juga, di mana zakar akan menegang dengan hebat sekitar 2 atau 3 pagi sehingga waktu solat subuh. Amalkan ia kalau boleh pada setiap malam sebelum anda tidur terutama ketika dalam keadaan cuaca sejuk supaya ligament dan urat syaraf yang berada pada zakar dalam keadaan tahap kecergasan yang terbaik.
